I've been a practitioner of Neo Tantra for well over a decade. I can honestly say Tantra and conscious sexuality changed my life. It healed me. It softened me. It empowered me. It taught me how to meet people deeply, and to be authentic in such meetings. It taught me how to see through the shallow, plastic veils of what we're taught is "sexy." Looking a certain way, performing etc. It taught me how to navigate beyond that veil into the depths of the true beauty that is humanness. And it taught me how to work with my Kundalini. To expand pleasure throughout my body through breath, sound and movement.
I discovered BDSM over a decade ago. BDSM, even conscious kink is so different from the softer space of Tantra and I loved that contrast! Power dynamics are so potent and are present in every interaction in our lives. Most of us will have fantasies that originate from childhood somewhere. Can you think of a fantasy you have right now? And think about the power dynamic that is present in that fantasy. Are you power over? Or power under?
Combining Tantra & BDSM and experiencing Dark Tantra for the first time was one of the most potent and powerful experiences I have ever had. Take the power of your kinkiest fantasy. Make it as real as you can with clothing, surroundings, role play etc. Then bring in the presence of Tantra. Where the touch presented to your body is focused, like nothing else in the world matters or even exists to your Domme. Bring in the ecstasy of breathwork and movement. Playing with the breath increases the oxygen in your body, which increases sensation and endorphins which make you even higher. Moving your body into the sensations that feel good.. and the ones that don't feel so good also increases these things. All this adds to the delicious concoction of good feelings in your body and mind. A good Dark Tantra session incorporating these things will leave you feeling amazing.
Dark Tantra also deals the shadow aspects of ourselves. How do you feel about being in the position of power over or power under? Do some parts push your buttons? Dark Tantra gives you a playing field to explore the parts of power dynamics that push your buttons. So you can experience them more comfortably and pleasurably.
Curious about Dark Tantra? Book a free fifteen minute consultation with me at LadyVictorious@protonmail.com