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Your Idea Of Dominance:

Updated: Oct 16, 2023

What is your idea of dominance?

It's such a wide and varied topic. Is there a right way or a wrong way? Probably not. There are as many ways to be submissive as there are dominant.

Does being dominant mean it's all about you and your needs? Does it mean you are not interested in a submissive's needs or wants? Does it mean to show any interest in anyone but yourself is a display of weakness? Does it mean you can't post more than three words in a chat at any one time?

I certainly don't think so. But perhaps I'm in a minority.

Personally, I've always been a fan of respect. Respect comes in many different forms. It can mean honouring a deep need for masochism and doing it with respect for boundaries or a lack of them. It can mean honouring the things that belong to you and helping them grow. There is something powerful about respect. It means I as a Domme am not thirsty AF. It means I've no need to "take" from you. I've all I need and I do what I want out of desire. And that is hot. Certainly imo.

I love to stretch a submissive's limits by combining their ordeal with a little tenderness. Not just tenderness, but also respect. I will hold you in your place of submission no matter how deep we go. (I'm a sadist. I hope you're prepared.) That tenderness and respect, combined with the ordeal is a very powerful combo. It'll help you open and soften into an even deeper space of surrender. And that is really what I want. Your softness. Your submission.

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